Tarot reading

The card represents the critical factor for the issue at hand. Queen of Wands, when reversed:
The dark essence of fire behaving as water, such as steam: The natural
embodiment of passion and sensuality, who will do anything to the be
the center of attention. A seducer who calculatingly dons the guise of
what others desire. A cocky and domineering person, who pushes anyone
or anything aside to get what she wants. One who is vengeful and quick
to take offense without good cause. May indicate infidelity and
contempt for a relationship.

Hope I remember what it was I was reading about. ;)