|[2017 update] It’s been four years since I posted Don’t Date A Girl Who Travels. I’m bringing it back from the archives for all you solo-travellin’ ladies out there.|
To celebrate the upcoming Valentine’s Day, I bring you this post about why you should not date a girl who travels.
This post was inspired by Date A Girl Who Travels but is an antithesis of the original post.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Weekends and holidays are best spent on the road for her. If you want to stay at home with the Xbox, then this girl is not for you.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Long distance relationships are not easy. Not even with Skype and Whatsapp.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Her money will be spent on trips but hopefully she has some savings for her emergency fund.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Makeup might not be among her prized possessions so don’t expect her to come out looking like an airbrushed model. Oh, you like women without makeup?
Don’t date a girl who travels. She will be fiercely independent. She might want to settle down eventually but for now she wants to freedom to roam the earth.
Don’t date a girl who travels. The pseudo-motivational quote “Experience is the only thing worth paying for” was made up by people who don’t own a lot of things. (Read point 5 of this article.)
Don’t date a girl who travels. When you both are lost, she will either ask for directions herself or set off on her own to find the right path.
Don’t date a girl who travels. You’ll think her sense of adventure can get her into trouble overseas and doubt that her wits and common sense will keep herself safe.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Authentic food served in the town’s “ethnic” restaurant might not taste as good as the food she ate by the road side.
Don’t date a girl who travels. She will leave town the next day with one of you left with a broken heart.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Falling in love on the road is too easy. Jealousy will drive you mad.
Don’t date a girl who travels. You never know when her next stop will be. If you need to track her every single step, you will not be dating her any longer.
Don’t date a girl who travels. You might not win her heart by impressing her with geographical knowledge. There is no point in reciting to her the population or GDP of a country if she already had mingled with the locals.
Don’t date a girl who travels. Settle for a girl who wants stability in her life: a house, two cars and 2.5 children. It’s much easier to satisfy those needs.
When you do find a girl who travels, ask yourself if you are ready to let her spread her wings. Will you be able to wait for her to come back? Or are you willing to travel with her (if she agrees to)?
This post will brand me as Miss Forever Alone. Yeah, I don’t get a lot of dates.
I don’t remember when I read the original Date A Girl Who Travels by Aleah Phils. It might have been on Facebook or shared by a friend. I think I commented that I need to find a guy who appreciates a girl who travels.
I’m sure there’s one out there who’s not already taken by other lady travelers. Until we meet.
Would you date a girl who travels?
But there’s still so much travel tips I have inside me I want to share, especially for those planning to quit their job to fulfil their travel dreams (not permanently).
That’s why I’m creating a new site for people just like me four years ago–solo, introvert women who want to take a career break to travel. It’s mainly about how to plan for that long-term trip.
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